Another cool thing about Mansions is the modular game board. You have a ton of different "room" tiles that gradually come out as you "explore" whichever area you're in- the app will tell you which ones to take out. If you look closely, the red tokens indicate a room to be explored and is mirrored on the computer screen.
Sunday, November 1, 2020
Halloween for Hermits
Tuesday, August 18, 2020
Comfy pants and games
Monday, August 10, 2020
There Can Only Be One
Hopefully me apologizing for stepping away from the blog for longer than I meant to doesn't become a reoccurring theme but I am sorry and at the very least, I'm able to come up with a good excuse this time.
I mentioned some time ago that my grandmother died while I was visiting her in her nursing home. This past Saturday we were finally able to get all the family together (many had to travel which of course meant tests and arranging for quarantines when they get home), have a memorial service, and bury her ashes. I'm not a religious person by any means but I can't help but think that she's finally rejoining her forever dance partner, my grandfather who died in 1978 and who's spot she never filled, for a much missed spin around the dance floor, and that makes me happy.
Needless to say, I've been busy prepping for all the visiting, spending much appreciated- though brief- time with my family, and dealing with the strange feeling of directly dealing with the loss again after a two month break. It's all back to "normal" now as I dropped my family at the airport yesterday but I have to say, I've been feeling a little aimless since then. I guess it was such a whirlwind few days and a lot for me to take in and now that it's all over I don't know what to make of things. Luckily I had the foresight to take a couple extra days off to recuperate and here we are.
As I sit here on my porch (where else?) sweating bullets even though I'm only moving my fingers to type (its 93F/34C, why am I out here?!), I feel like I'm finally ready to enter the real world, despite all that. My morning was spent cleaning then watching, for reasons I cannot fathom myself, The Highlander TV show from the 90s while I sewed but I think this heat has me sweating out my shiftless mood and I can tell I'm starting to feel better and ready to engage in some sort of activity, with other humans even, and I think I know just the thing...
Yeah, the more I think of it, the thing I'm looking forward to the most today is the arrival of M. This is not just because I'm particularly fond of him (I agreed to marry him after all) but I know that no matter what kind of day at work he had, if I ask him if he wants to play a game with me he'll say yes.
And I just really want to play a board game today.
I've mentioned this before I think but though I've always enjoyed board/card games, I never knew how intense they could be until I met M who's a real enthusiast. Any and all types of games he's eternally, well, game to play and though I'm not quite at that level, its nice to have someone who'll play with you if you're say, in the perfect mood to engage with someone and get out of your head a bit after being home alone all day. Yup, like today.
As a testament to his love of games, here's a bonus picture of M getting crushed by me in a game of cribbage at Night Shift Brewing in Everett, Massachusetts:
But we still played another game right after that one.
How awesome are our Star Trek: TNG cards by the way? Oh and anyone in the Boston area that wants to drink their beer in a place that is not their house while being conscientious of the whole pandemic thing, allow me to whole-heartedly recommend Night Shift. They seriously go the extra mile ensuring everyone's safety, as does nearby Bone Up Brewing Co- they very politely reminded me to re-mask after I absentmindedly forgot to put my mask back on as we were leaving.
Anyway, GAMES.
The one I'm most eagerly awaiting M's arrival for is Sherlock Holmes Consulting Detective. I've linked you to the first box set there, but there are two others which were created much later. Not technically a board game per se but so utterly immersive that it's perfect for my weird brain today.
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Essentially, it's a Choose Your Own Adventure style murder mystery game. You play as Wiggins, the head of Holme's street ruffian gang of assistants to help him solve murders by chasing different leads. However, the more leads you go to, the more points are deducted from your final score which is always compared to/based on Homes' always perfect score of 100. For each case, you are given a booklet which has the initial case information as relayed to you by Holmes himself plus all the leads, as well as a map, London directory, newspaper, and occasionally different bits of paper evidence. There are also "experts" you can visit (like the coroner for instance) that are the same throughout the game.
We're currently on a case in the box set pictured above which is the third that was created. Though you don't necessarily have to complete the boxes in any particular order, I wouldn't suggest starting with this one as it has extra long cases and some annoying typos- we had to look up some error corrections for this one but we've already established a deep love of the game so it didn't entirely put us off. If you're just starting out you might find that too off-putting. We started with The Thames Murders box and still have yet to do the Jack the Ripper cases.Wednesday, July 22, 2020
Collecting Happiness Points
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Sunday, May 31, 2020
The Weekend is Alright
Friday was a little rough work-wise, but M and I spent the evening playing some games. We finished a game of Terra Mystica we had in progress and I'm really sad I didn't take a picture because not only did I win, I crushed M. It doesn't happen often, I have to admit. But that just makes it extra cause for celebration when I do.
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Later in the evening, after dinner, we opened a beer (mine was the previously mentioned Long Trail Blackberry Wheat, highly recommended), and played backgammon on the porch. It was still beautifully warm out there, perfect for a porch party as M called it.
We briefly used that lantern because it also serves as a bluetooth speaker but of course the bugs couldn't get enough so we switched on the string lights instead. Porch party!!!
Saturday, as I mentioned above, was my real "off" day. I did my best to try and settle on something/occupy my mind. I did get some gaming in, playing a lot more Fez as shown below, and later in the evening, M and I played Diablo III until midnight. I think going forward, games will be a good tool to use when I find I'm having trouble getting myself out of a little bit of a depressive episode. They're a lot more engaging than, say, just giving up and sitting in front of the TV and I feel better after a game binge than I do after a TV binge. I still feel like I'm using my brain.
Taking a walk though is always one of the most helpful things and since the weather was so awesome I knew I definitely had to get out. I ended up taking a little over an hours long walk (or, an entire episode of the My Favorite Murder podcast) and dude, just look at the pictures I took. So beautiful!
After I got back from my walk, I grabbed the mail and discovered I had a mysterious airmailed package. The sender's last name was Fforde which I thought was strange because the only person I know of with that last name is one of my favorite authors, Jasper Fforde....
WAIT A MINUTE
Yup, that is a signed copy of Jasper Fforde's novel Early Riser, sent by Mr. Fforde himself. After some sleuthing (i.e., frantically texting my sister who's name was included in the personal inscription I left out of the picture above), I discovered that Jasper Fforde created this Instagram post:
Which my sister saw and emailed him requesting one of the copies be sent to me. I am amazingly lucky to have gotten a book as there were only 21 up for grabs and I am doubly lucky to have such a thoughtful sister to try and get one for me. Its like the universe knew I was going to have a shitty brain day today and arranged for the coolest mystery mail ever to arrive.
Needless to say, I ended Saturday feeling a whole lot better than I started it.
Sunday, I woke up later than I meant to (that's what I get for playing games so late) and right away, got kind of grumpy about it. I had meant to get up and make strawberry pancakes because I had strawberries that were getting close to going bad that I wanted to use up, but M had already eaten breakfast by the time I was up. Determined to enjoy the day, I cut up the strawberries and sprinkled on some sugar to macerate them (sugar is also a preservative!) and set about making a pound cake to later smother in said strawberries.
Not bad! Hope its good, I've actually never made a pound cake before. I used this recipe, using this method of turning my AP flour into cake flour as that is not something I keep on hand.
We also went to the grocery store which, nowadays, counts as weekend excitement. I think later in the day we'll play some more games, either tabletop or video, I'm not sure. I may read too, now that I've got a very exciting book up next after I finish my current one. A good end to a, yes Ashley, great weekend.
*Post title comes from The Who song "The kids are alright" which was stuck in my head as I wrote this.
Thursday, May 28, 2020
Plant mom: Just Chill Already
We're going through a rough patch at work because we're taking on new patients finally. We always have quite the waitlist so I'm not surprised even given the current situation, but unfortunately this means a complicated quarantine protocol and lots and lots of chaos and stress. Additionally, we finally made the decision to postpone our wedding which was originally going to be this August but has now been pushed to August 2021. The decision is a right one and I don't regret it but it's rough fielding all the questions from people, hearing their input (*insert eye roll here*), and doing all the frantic emailing of vendors/ordering "change the dates." It all worked out though and we were able to get all the same vendors booked for next year but I'll admit, the process left me in a little bit of a funk (shoutout to my fiancé who can still stand me even when I can't stand myself and swoops in for the save when I need it most <3).
On top of all that, I'm one of many that feel a lot of pressure to take this lockdown as a good opportunity to reach my full potential of creativeness and productivity. Of course, that's not how it works really, especially since I still go to work each day, so since it's been so crazy, I've taken extra steps at allowing (/forcing?) myself to just chill already.
And lately, that mostly means PLANTS.
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